The Mystery of Everyday Life aims to celebrate the everyday. Or, I should say, to celebrate the mystery of the everyday in the everyday. Moreover, it does so in prose that is a pleasure to read. …
In appearance, tone and message what The Mystery of Everyday Life reads like is a little book of wisdom. Elegant in its simplicity, at its most appealing it is as charming as it is insightful, eg, in its use of Pooh Bear to talk about doing nothing. On occasion, it risks being cloying, yet I am quite pleased with many of the passages to do with children. Specific sections invite ridicule (as a farm boy, I squirm at some of what is said about riding and ‘being a horse’) yet others are nothing if not poignant (the decline and death of the father of one of the authors). …
There is no shortage of genuine pearls here. I would have a hard time, however, getting a reader determined to be swinish to admit it. Consider this: ‘Although we often speak of parents bringing children into the world, we speak little of children giving birth to parents … So this is why I’m alive, this is what life is about, this is what I was like, this is where that experience becomes useful’. (pp 80-81). Then again, there is this: ‘rather than establishing a debt, gift-giving is its own reward; we’re grateful to those who receive our loving gifts, for they have given us the chance to be generous’ (p30). Need I say that, on occasion, this is the way it is …
Not a book for ethnographers then, but one for those oriented to existential and cosmological questions – those searching for an alternative way of talking about life as it is lived … – Australian Journal of Anthropology, Vol 17/2, 2006
This thought-provoking and insightful little book takes a fresh look at life as a process rather than an end, and it encourages readers to look for the meaning of life in the everyday joys of living instead of in terms of achievement or others’ opinions.
The authors show readers that the riches of life, such as wonder, connection and joy, are right where they are and that sorrow, giving and responsibility are riches too.
The book contains 11 chapters, each of which reinforces the idea that ‘meaning of life’ is found only in the vitality of the social relations in which we participate. – The Catholic Weekly, 8 June 2003